Parenting ideas

I used to go along with my friends, hanging out, have fun in the beach, talking, drinking, sharing ideas, funny stories.  But its almost two years now since I quit my job in an office environment. I mean, I recently worked at home, its an online job.  Less travel, set my own schedule, spend more time with my family and get a nice big pay check at middle of the month; isn’t that sound good?  on my late 20′s, I almost give up searching a good job for myself.  Until I experienced working at Dubai then expected to stay their for good but it happened not as better as my expectation. 

Working online can never get better than this. When my friends found out that I was earning dollars, they were so jealous that they begged me to tell them my secret. I feel so lucky and of course, I share it with them, and thank me for those information.

But it also can be one of the most satisfying, if we learn to look beyond the immediate problems and heartaches and begin to see it from God’s point of view. After all, God gave your children to you, and He did it because He knows they need the love and wisdom only you can give them. The Bible says, “Sons are a heritage from the Lord, children a reward from him” (Psalm 127:3).

In other words, God has given you one of the greatest privileges imaginable: the privilege of helping shape the future of another human being. Someday your children will no longer live with you — but what will their memories be? Will they only be of bickering or conflict — or will they also be of love and joy and happiness? Don’t let your frustrations or weariness crowd out your love.

Does this word “Homesick” affect to child feeling?  As what Encarta dictionary defines it, feeling sadness and longing to be at home with family and friends when away from them.

Yes, as what I have observed with my daughter. She seemingly experienced this Homesickness with regards to her previous life in Davao.  Nicole, has its very close cousin there named kimkim. Nicole really adore her cousin and I find her adopting kimkim character. But since we’re in Dubai now, she is always imagining the way she played with kimkim, yesterday, she is in the window shouting “kimkim, where are you?” ahahaha…but she smiled at me when she knew that I heard it. Hahaha actually, we are laughing that time.

Normally, when we are separated from home, we do feel that way too. Missing the things that you are usually do. Okay, below are the most effective ways of coping it. This is based from my experience also.

o    Keeping a positive attitude

o    Maintaining contact with home, through letters, e-mails, chat, or text activity.

o    Communication, talking with friends or nearby relatives.

o    Enjoying what’s different about the novel environment.

o    Bringing a “transitional object”, something special from home. Like book, stuff toy.

But for now, Nicole is fine here, she easily get along with our flatmate and do some naughty things again. Hahay…that is child is all about. We have to fully understand them because that is part of their growth.

“If our minds are ruled by our desires, we will die. But if our minds are ruled by the spirit, we will have life and peace”.

Our desires fight against God, because they do not and cannot obey God’s laws.

If we follow our desired, we cannot please God.

My dear friends, we must not live to satisfy our desired. If you do, you will die. But you will live, if by the help of God’s spirit you say “No” to your desires.

Wild people
Wild place

Ahihii.. I can’t write anything…I don’t know how will I begin my blog. It is so noisy and crowded. Things are not the same as before. I guess guys life is a constant change. And it is better indeed to be versatile and flexible at all times. Well, thanks that I easily managed my life and despite of those hardships in life, I still have trust and confident that I can do all things with the guidance of God of course.

Last week, I am a bit sad due to my husbands news. He texted me that days are really tight and it has 35 days more to go, then things will bring back to our previous life. Complete life with husband and daughter on my side. But I expected him to go home last march this year. And that is the reason why I resigned despite of those boring days there at the office. So far, my life is on the smooth road. All the things that passed are just flaws. I know in God’s time things will bring back to its life that I wanted. Prayers are really important. I know! I need to believe that, and I must!

Believe and it will be given!

Other says that one of my asset is my height. But I didn’t take it seriously. I mean, How can I benefit this asset to think I am not a Model. ahihihi…but honestly, back on my childhood memory, I want to be a model someday. So, to you out there! If you have wants in life, try to achieve it without hesitant, because there is no harm in trying. No one knows our future until we try to look forward into it.

“Look of the year” are looking for Young, Beautiful and had a guts to join their Beauty Constest. Be as aggressive and push hard on your dreams. So, what are you waiting for? Be ready and prepare yourself for a big event!

Good luck to you guys!